We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves by Karen Joy Fowler
Published by G.P. Putnam’s Sons
From the publisher:
Meet the Cooke family. Our narrator is Rosemary Cooke. As a child, she never stopped talking; as a young woman, she has wrapped herself in silence: the silence of intentional forgetting, of protective cover. Something happened, something so awful she has buried it in the recesses of her mind.
Now her adored older brother is a fugitive, wanted by the FBI for domestic terrorism. And her once lively mother is a shell of her former self, her clever and imperious father now a distant, brooding man.
And Fern, Rosemary’s beloved sister, her accomplice in all their childhood mischief? Fern’s is a fate the family, in all their innocence, could never have imagined.
First of all, there are some summaries of this book that give away a pretty big spoiler, something that is integral to the book, but something that you don’t find out until maybe 75 pages in, something that I personally was very, very happy I didn’t know going in. So don’t read any summaries but the one above, and you will enjoy the surprise as I did.
Rosemary isn’t particularly likable in the beginning of the book, but as the reader learns more about this family it becomes very apparent just why that is the case. This family is so the opposite of normal, yet in some ways they are a typical American family, damaged and dysfunctional and yet still full of love for one another.
There’s so much I want to say about this book but cannot because I don’t want to ruin it for you. It’s so, so gorgeous and heartbreaking and I couldn’t put it down. I sobbed while reading it and when I think about it too hard, I get teary-eyed once again. I loved We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves and I highly encourage you to read it too.
Wow, it sounds like this has really stuck with you. I’m adding it to my wish list.
This sounds amazing and painful. I will have to look for it.
I tried reading this but stopped after a few chapters. At the time, I didn’t find it very engrossing. I guess I should give it another try.
Drives me nuts when people who know better write a synopsis that spoils stuff! I’ll keep myself sheltered and not read anything else about it. You make a convincing argument here…I’ll never get caught up, ever! I’m going to see if my library has it on audio.
I just finished – read at your recommendation! OMG, yes, devastating!
Yay, so glad you liked this. I absolutely loved it. I knew the secret going in — that’s actually what first appealed to me about the book — and still enjoyed it tremendously. But I’m trying not to spoil it for anyone else!
I’ve been seeing this around so much and I’m going to have to put it on my list. But here’s my secret–I won’t read any summaries AT ALL. Just knowing that y’all loved it is enough for me to pick it up.
Sold!