Title: The Secret Story of Sonia Rodriguez
Author: Alan Lawrence Sitomer
# of pages: 320
Release date: September 30, 2008
ISBN: 978-1423110729
Rating: 4/5
Sonia Rodriguez is a first generation American citizen – her parents were both born in Mexico and came to the United States illegally. Her father works three jobs and her mother stays home – mostly watching soap operas all day, leaving Sonia to do the cooking and cleaning and watching over her younger brothers. When Sonia isn’t being her mother’s slave, she tries to study while avoiding the advances of her alcoholic uncle (“drunkle”). When Sonia starts to rebel by putting more energy and effort into her schoolwork than she does into her duties at home, her mother decides she needs to spend the summer in Mexico with her grandmother and cousin to learn the importance of la familia.
Although her summer in Mexico is much better than she could have ever anticipated, Sonia comes home to an even worse situation than she left – her mother has given birth to twins, which gives Sonia about three times the work she previously had, leaving absolutely zero time for school work. Still, she is determined to succeed in school and be the first person in her family to earn a high school diploma. All she needs to do is balance cooking, cleaning, being a mom to twin newborns, and passing all her classes. Oh, and she also has to worry about her “drunkle”, whose advances have become much less subtle and more scary by the day.
I “read” The Secret Story of Sonia Rodriguezas an audio book and it definitely kept me interested for my drives to and from work. I felt a lot of empathy for Sonia and found myself rooting for her throughout the entire book – I started to care about her and was really hoping for the book to end with her graduation from high school and entrance to college (don’t worry, I won’t tell if it happens or not!). Even though I have no experience living the kind of life described in this book, I had no problem relating to Sonia and her situation; I just felt like she was a very relatable character and seemed pretty realistic. Most of the other characters (except her father) annoyed me, and I truly don’t know how realistic they were, but they definitely added a more colorful, harder-edged element to the story – especially her “drunkle”.
I have to admit that I did get a little frustrated with Sonia that she never could seem to stick up for herself. It’s probably just me, and it’s probably a cultural disconnect, but I don’t get how she could let her family treat her so terribly and never say anything about it. To me, families support each other, they don’t treat one another like slaves, and they certainly don’t verbally abuse one another constantly. Her family broke her spirit and abused her constantly, yet she never once stuck up for herself – I had a hard time connecting with that aspect of the book. But like I said, perhaps it is just a cultural disconnect that I simply can’t appreciate. The book is overall pretty harsh, but it is a very engrossing read and ultimately inspiring. I would definitely recommend The Secret Story of Sonia Rodriguez.
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